Posts

Image
  From Nature to Nature We are a part of nature, and eventually, we return to nature. However, there is a journey between these two points—from birth to death. It is an emotional journey of relationships, struggles, choices, thoughts, failures, discoveries, and a quest for meaning. But somewhere in that journey lies the concept of independence . When I speak of independence, I am not talking only about physical or political independence. I am also talking about the freedom of our thoughts. India's independence from British rule took place on 15th August 1947. It was a momentous occasion—the freedom of a nation. But it makes me wonder: Did the freedom of the nation mean the freedom of every mind within the nation? I don't think so. Political freedom can be gained through movements, struggles, and historical change. But freedom of thought is not the same. It cannot simply be given to us. We need to discover it. We need to question what we are told, examine what we t...

Discipline is praised by the world—but rarely understood.

Image
  The world is often hard for disciplined people. Before diving into this topic, let us ask ourselves: What is discipline? Where does it come from? Is it universal or subjective? Who taught us discipline—the disciplined or the undisciplined? And why is it important? Now, disciplined people often seem to suffer more than those who don’t care about discipline. This is because they want the world to be the way they are. However, both groups suffer in their own ways. A disciplined person finds it difficult to accept things that go against their mindset. They shape themselves through struggle and self-control, which sometimes leads to inner conflict . Discipline is not just about winning, being first, or being celebrated by everyone. It is about how it influences our everyday actions and decisions. On the other hand, those who do not care about discipline not only suffer themselves but may also affect others. Still, we cannot simply label someone as “undisciplined.” That i...

Emotional and Decision Dependence : why it holds you back and how to reclaim your power

Image
  (also in தமிழ்  👇)               DOMINANCE OF DEPENDENCE                         Why do we depend  on someone?                                     Specifically, I'm referring to decision dependence.  "Some believe others decisions are always right for them. They may be right, but your decision to depend on them is inherently flawed (wrong). Even if you regret your own decision, there still a lesson to be learned from your mistakes.          Of course, we  need a guidance, but  not ownership of  our  lives.  Where does our life  lead us? ( its your  time to  think)                                  ...

Our leader

Image
The only leader in the world who was sentenced to 40 years in prison is V.O. Chidambaram..! Coimbatore prison in particular has had a huge impact on V.O.C.! The jailer's name is Minjel... He is very bad. A cruel person..! When he was taken to jail, he was tied up with his hands and feet and dragged through the streets..! V.O.C. had a separate room in the jail. But it had no air conditioning. There was no cleanliness or hygiene. V.O.C. was kept locked up with animals tied to his feet..! As soon as he went to jail, his head was shaved. He was given only one dress, and that too was sewn from a sack. The person who used to feed a thousand people a day was given gruel in jail. That too had gone sour. Sometimes worms would float in that gruel..! Because of his poor health, V.O.C. asked for rice from the queen for only one day. For that, the jailer Minjel has been starving for 3 days without even giving him the pulp. He has to turn the jute-pulling machine by hand. This is the...

she is Immortal ( to know women )

Image
                                                                                                                                                                                                                              She ... who is she?         She is not weak; she just did'nt know her power.She is not lonely; she just chose to spend time for  herself. So, is she rude?yeah  for those who deserve it. She is ...